All Souls Unitarian Universalist Church, Greenfield, MA - 413.773.5018
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March 2005

The Clarion deadline coincides with the monthly Friendship Potluck Luncheons on the third Sunday of the month. Submissions can be in writing, on disk, faxed (773-5018) or e-mail at newsletter@uugreenfield.org.

Past issues of The Clarion can be found by clicking here.

March 2005 Clarion Headlines:
All Souls UU Church Welcomes You - UU Greenfield MA All Souls Unitarian Universalist Church

The caring coordinator for March is Jana Cummings.

From the Minister
A Calvin & Hobbes cartoon depicts Calvin calling out to his teacher, "Is 'desk' masculine?  Is 'chair' feminine?  Foreign kids know, but we don't!  No wonder we can't compete in a global market!  I demand sex education!"

The complications involving gender and sex are infamous; the cartoon makes light of that.  But more basic conversation stems from issues related to educating about sexuality at All souls.  Is it appropriate?  I think so, when issues around our sexuality and our relationship to our own body are so central to our identity and our sense of self-worth and dignity.  To promote the free and informed search for truth or the interconnected web of all existence while ignoring issues of human sexuality would invite a dis-integrated spirituality.  Out in the culture and in a way damaging to all of us, we and our children face an onslaught of messages which commodify and desacralize sexuality.  Intermixed with promiscuity and violence in the media, things seems to be worsening while cutbacks and religious challenges in the schools mean health/sexuality curricula are more narrow, meager, and superficial than ever.

I believe it behooves us to continue our denomination's efforts to offer an alternative, and the UU curriculum "Our Whole Lives" (OWL - be wise!) is a life-span approach developed from experience and trial in hundreds of churches.  All Souls programs for youth and adults have begun, and I'm grateful to church members Meg Baker and Suzanne Gluck-Sosis for their trained approach to leading these programs.

Feel free to approach Meg and Suzanne about your issues as well as to raise them with me.  We must be sensitive and respectful - particularly around the children - in conducting such programs.  But in talking with youth after a recent OWL program, their calm sense of becoming better informed and having their own perspective and questions fully respected was apparent.  As difficult as it is to meet social demands like sexuality education, it was one example of UU work where it is plain we do it better!  To our enlightened good health -

Jon Rehmus

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Ministry Notes and Programs
Easter service child dedication: If you are interested in having your child dedicated, call me (624-3025) or our Director of Religious Education Eve Brown-Waite (772-0043).  The service involves a set of ritual elements and opportunities to share suiting children of all ages as well as families of diverse religious background and practice.  Eve and I would be happy to explain this beautiful occasion of recognition and celebration.

Sunday morning Adult Discussion Group will finish its current series on Fundamentalism and Universalism March 20 (all sessions meet at 9 a.m. in the minister's study).  The spring series will begin April 3 and will involve a study-group approach to the Tao Te Ching (the Books of the Way and Virtue, by Lao Tse).  This will be a wonderful chance for drop-in reflection and conversation as each week we explore a chapter of this ancient text of wisdom.

Mid-March Family Fun Night
Let's beat those cold, crankies with a mid-March Family Fun Night! Friday, March 18, 6 - 8:30 P.M. in the Parish Hall. We'll supply the pizza and beverages and a selection of games. You bring your family, a simple snack to share and some favorite games of your own.  Everyone is welcome to this truly Intergenerational Event.

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Notes from the DRE
Beauty Tips (attributed to Audrey Hepburn)

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.

People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed and redeemed; never throw out anyone.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of each of your arms.

As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands - one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.

It's good advice!
In Love and Light, Eve

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Choir Announcement
The All Souls choir will be singing four times this spring. Please come and sing with us.

March 27 (Easter)
April 17
May 15 (with Jim Scott)
June 5 (New Member Sunday)

Our plan is to meet for rehearsal at 9:30 a.m. on the three Sundays preceding the weeks we are going to sing. For Easter this means we will have our first rehearsal on March 6. We will work on parts for the first two rehearsals, and then work on putting it together at the third Sunday rehearsal. We will also have a rehearsal on the Thursday before the day we sing and one rehearsal at 9 a.m. the day we sing.

If you want to sing with the choir but can't make it to all the rehearsals, please call or talk to Carol Flandreau (863-4201) to get copies of the music to work on at home. We plan to do music that is fun to sing but not too difficult to learn. Hope you can join us!

Drum with Ellen Clegg on March 20
Master drummer and All Souls member Ellen Clegg will have a workshop on Sunday, March 20, 4:30 - 6 p.m. in the Parish Hall.  All levels of experience are welcome. Bring your own drum if you have it. Ellen has some extras. $10. For more information, call 648-9845.

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Zen Judaism
Let go of pride, ego, and opinions. Admit your errors and forgive those of others. Relinquishment will lead to calm and healing in your relationships. If that doesn't work, try small claims court.

Though only your skin, sinews, and bones remain, though your blood and flesh dry up and wither away, yet shall you meditate and not stir until you have attained full Enlightenment. But, first, a little nosh.

Accept misfortune as a blessing. Do not wish for perfect health or a life without problems. What would you talk about?

Be here now. Be someplace else later. Is that so complicated?

There is no escaping karma. In a previous life, you never called, you never wrote, you never visited. And whose fault was that?

The Torah says, "Love thy neighbor as thyself." The Buddha says there is no "self." So, maybe you are off the hook.

If there is no self, whose arthritis is this?

Wherever you go, there you are. Your luggage is another story.

Do not let children play contact sports like football. These only lead to injuries and instill a violent, warlike nature. Encourage your child to play peaceful games, like "sports doctor."

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single "oy."

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Wheel of Life
Congratulations to Julia, Chris and Bea Ellingboe on the arrival of their newest family member, Ingrid  Solveig, born February 5 and weighing in at 8'10".

Ruth Sterling has taken a job with an agency that supplies nurses to hospitals, etc. all over the US. She accepted a 13 week contract at a psychiatric hospital and is now  in California just east of San Francisco,  living in Union City which is noted for having the most diverse population of anywhere in the US, (an attribute that she loves. "Hope all are well and the children are flourishing."

Irmarie and Brud Jones were each presented framed certificates of appreciation from Greenfield Community College president Robert Pura for their 15 years of being volunteer conversation partners in the English-for-Speakers-of-Other-Languages department. They were honored at a potluck lunch of the ESOL students in February.

Cyril Thomason is currently at the Buckley Nursing Home. She was an All Souls member for many years and particularly active in the Social Action Committee and Choir.

It's so nice to see the welcome flag up again at the front of the church on Sunday morning. It was made for us about ten years ago by Felicity Poole.

We extend sympathy to Richard Towle, whose biological mother, Diane Tetreault, died on February 21.

The informal church history committee is planning to complete its purpose this spring. Can anyone think of some subject about the last 50 years of the church that should be covered? See Cynthia or George Bluh if you have any ideas.

The narcissus bulbs planted as part of the Imbolc worship service on January 29 are in bloom.

(We extend concern and appreciation for all of you taking care of family members and friends in times of illness and need.  If you would like prayers, a healing contemplation, or just good vibrations offered, feel free to make a recognition or prayer request of the minister, the Caring Coordinator of the month  (see the Clarion) or through Joys & Concerns.

Please help keep the community informed of significant events affecting our members. If you have any information you would like included in Wheel of Life please speak to Diane Dix.)

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Tag Sale April 23
The Annual Spring Tag Sale is scheduled for April 23. Let's make this the best one ever. Household items, sports equipment, bicycles, good books (not textbooks) collectibles, toys and jewelry ... whatever you think will sell. NO clothing. If  you can help set up or work at the sale, or both, see Irmarie Jones.

Donations to Survival Center Needed
The Franklin Area Survival Center needs spring clothing for its thrift shop. In the pantry, soups and cereals are especially needed, but all nonperishable foods would be welcome. Leave in the basket in the narthex.

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Membership Committee Needs More Involved Individuals
The Membership and Hospitality Committee is in desperate need of new members and/or volunteers to assist us in the many tasks we are responsible for at All Souls.  More specifically, we need individuals or groups to:

Host a coffee hour
Host a Friendship Luncheon
Be a Caring Coordinator for a month
Organize a Circle Dinner (or progressive dinner)
Make a reminder call to the Coffee Hour host each week
Assist with Newcomer Orientation
Assist with New Member packets
Help launch Small Group Ministry
Help make sure visitors and Newcomers feel welcomed, especially during Coffee Hour

We meet regularly on the 3rd Sunday of each month after Coffee Hour in the Chapman Room.  You are welcome to join us any time.  We also welcome volunteers who want help out but choose not to attend the meetings.

Please contact Martha Elliott or Margo Campbell for more information or to offer your help.  Thank you!      

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Mid-Week Music Resumes

March 16 - Rosemary Caine and friend, Celtic harp and other music to celebrate St. Patrick's Day

March 23 - Jerry Noble, piano and Bob Sparkman, clarinet

March 30 - Northside Saxophone Quartet

(every Wednesday, 12:15 - 12:45 p.m.)

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Anti-Racism Film Festival Part II
Saturday, March 12th, 2005, at All Souls

Schedule:
4:30 - 6:00 - I Sit Where I Want: The Legacy of Brown vs. the Board of Education, Executive Producer Tonya Lee Lewis. Genre: Documentary. Not rated, but this documentary is meant for high school students and older. The film follows a diverse group of high school students as they grapple with social segregation in their school, and participate in a project to take action to change it.
Facilitated by Molly Chambers

6:00 - 7:00 - Dinner (Donations requested)

7:00 - 9:30 - Mississippi Masala, directed by Mira Nair. Genre: Romance/Drama. Director Nair concocts a fascinating picture of Mina, an Indian woman whose father pines for his native Uganda, where his family lived prosperously until the evil Idi Amin took power. Transplanted to rural Mississippi, the family struggles to make ends meet by running a string of motels, but they don't yet feel at home. When Mina falls for an African American entrepreneur, complications arise. 
Facilitated by Angel Russek

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Music for All Souls on March 13th
The Music for All Souls concert on Sunday afternoon, March 13th, at 3:00 PM, will feature José Gonzalez and Criollo Clasico, who perform Latin American, classical, pop, jazz and original music on Spanish guitars, Puerto Rican cuatro, flute and Latin percussion. 

If you can help with the Music for All Souls  reception please speak to Diane Dix or Marty Ortiz (625-9305). Also, spread the word, please! When was the last time Puerto Rican music was featured in Greenfield? We hope to have a large audience to show our support for multi-cultural events.

Patty Larkin at Coffee & Soul on March 19th
Brilliant singer-songwriter (and equally brilliant guitarist) Patty Larkin will be headlining the Coffee & Soul show on March 19. The show starts at 7:30 PM with special guests Bassett, Bartone and Clegg. Larkin has been called "one of the best musicians on the planet. Her concerts are don't-miss events. Larkin combines great singing with excellent songwriting and skilled guitar playing to create a haunting sound of her own." (St. Louis Post-Dispatch)

Tickets are $20.00 in advance, $22.00 at the door. Buy tickets online at www.uugreenfield.org/coffeeandsoul

There are no discounts for this show. However, we need a limited number of bakers. If you would like to bake for this show, your admission will be $10. If interested, contact Maureen Moore or speak to Maureen or Diane Dix on Sunday mornings.

The Clarion deadline for the March issue is March 20th. Submissions can be in writing, on disk, faxed by using the church number or sent to "newsletter" or "administrator" or "music" @uugreenfield.org.

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All Souls UU Church
399 Main Street, P.O. Box 542
Greenfield, MA 01301
413.773.5018
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